Monday, March 24, 2008

Camden's Birthday

Of course yesterday was Easter but we also had another reason to celebrate at our house. It was Camden's birthday. I can't believe he's two years old. I still sometimes call him my baby but he is getting so big that it just doesn't fit him anymore. Here are a couple of pictures from a combined party he had with his cousin:


And here he is with his favorite present from mom and dad. This is the perfect toy for a kid who always wants to go, "round and round." He loves to get dizzy and then try and walk around. Casey thought of getting him this toy. Good call Dad!


Camden figured out how to use this in no time.


Thursday, March 20, 2008

Bad Combination

I have a brand new baby (one week today) and a sick 4 year old. That's a bad combination. I'm trying to keep Jace away from Alek and I'm trying to keep myself a safe distance from Jace so that when I hold Alek I won't get him sick. But it is so hard. The result of this situation is that now Casey is getting Jace's cough because he's been the one taking care of Jace for the most part. So now there's one more person who might get Alek sick. And keeping my distance from Jace hasn't been easy. I don't think I have hugged or even sat by Jace since Monday. So by now he's probably feeling like the most dejected four year old ever.

So here I am feeling like the worst mom in the world for basically ignoring Jace, and worrying about every sneeze Alek does, when I check on a blog I've been following and I'm brought to tears. My sister-in law's friend just had a baby girl this afternoon. Her baby is beautiful and the delivery went well. But her little one has a heart defect and will need open-heart surgery as soon as possible to save her life. Suddenly I feel guilty for feeling like I've had a rough few days. And instead, my heart goes out to the parents of a little girl who truly has a rough time ahead. Suddenly I have a new perspective on life and what really matters.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Introducing...

Alek Bruce Russell

Born: March 13, 2008 at 3:39 pm.

Weight: 8 lb, 4 oz.
Length: 18 1/2 in.



Here's the newest member of our family. After an 11 hour labor we were happy to welcome our little guy into the world. He came a little earlier than we though he would and I'm glad he did. He is my biggest baby and longest labor. Jace loves to give Alek kisses, and Camden likes to hold and look at him. Casey and I are still adjusting to life as parents of three. But I can't believe how well Alek fits into our family. We are so happy to have him.

Saturday, March 15, 2008

Hi my name is Alek and my dad sure thinks he's funny?

I guess this is my cruel and unusual way of introducing the newest edition of our "Russell" boys enjoy. Connie will give you the nitty gritty girl details later.

Thursday, March 6, 2008

HypnoBirthing 101

I'm not sure if those who read this blog are aware that I have had unmedicated childbirths so far. And as long as everything is going well when baby #3 comes, I'll do the same thing. I'm not saying that to brag, it is simply a choice I made. I came to the decision to have my babies without pain medications after witnessing the placement of many epidurals while in nursing school. After watching that procedure (both successful attempts and attempts that had to be redone many times) I became terrified of having an epidural myself. My fear of epidurals only intensified when I cared for patients in the hospital after their babies were born, who had problems because of epidurals that were placed incorrectly. To correct this problem and relieve the resulting headache, they had to undergo another procedure where once again, a needle was inserted into the spine. How's that for ironic?

Anyway, when I was pregnant with Jace I shared with my doctor my desire to have natural childbirth if possible. He recommended I look into HypnoBirthing and gave me the name and brochure of a licenced hypnotherapist who taught the class. I'll be honest, I thought it sounded a little strange just based on the name. I wasn't sure if I was hippie/new age enough to try it, and reading the birth stories on the HypnoBirthing website (http://www.hypnobirthing.com/) made it sound too good to be true.

But Casey was very encouraging and supportive and I decided I didn't have anything to lose by looking into it. Well it definitely worked and I had the epidural-free labors I wanted. I had relaxing labors where I was completely aware of everything that was happening. I wasn't actually hypnotized the way that most people think of. No one had control over me or my actions and I wasn't in a trance-like state. It is best compared to "the daydreaming or focusing that occurs when you are engrossed in a book or a movie or staring into a fire." It's basically just a really deep state of relaxation.

HypnoBirthing also teaches breathing techniques that allow the body to remain relaxed. It is not the fast panting breathing that people tend to think of when labor breathing is mentioned. I also learned about getting rid of fear related to childbirth. If fear is not there, the body will not have tension that leads to pain. This cycle is what leads to pain in labor. The last concept (that I believe is unique to HypnoBirthing) is the fact that the body has the ability to release natural pain-eliminating chemicals called endorphins and they are actually stronger than morphine.

So that's HypnoBirthing in a nutshell. I pretty much summed up some of the key concepts they teach so I don't know if that made much sense or not. But I have had a few people ask me about what it is and how it works, so that's why I did this blog entry. And now you all know why I choose to have medication-free childbirth.

Saturday, March 1, 2008

Yay It's March!

I can now say that I am going to have my baby this month. That is such a great feeling. The countdown is almost over.